The presence of children in certain public spaces is usually something highly debated, whether in tourist destinations or in shopping malls, there are adults who cannot stand the simple existence of infants. Sometimes it is a bit exaggerated, because minors behave according to their age. In addition, we all go through that stage and they are normal behaviors, even so, some adults do not hesitate to assure that they are “spoiled” for doing anything that makes them uncomfortable.
However, public spaces are very different from private ones. Especially when it comes to weddings, parents must respect if the newlyweds do not want children present at their party, but if not even the parents themselves can follow this simple indication, how do they think their children will behave in the celebration? ? Where the code of conduct is very demanding.
It is becoming more and more common to restrict the entrance of minors to weddings and, honestly, there are plenty of reasons. From the fact that the environment is totally for adults, since alcoholic beverages (and drunks) will not be enough, to the fact that children can ruin an important moment of the long-awaited day, as in this TikTok:
@rojancellos Everything went well 😱😱 #wedding #wedding #weddingtiktok #bride
In addition, you may not know that the assistance of children also impacts the pocket of the couple who will marry. For example, on the menu, because their dish is different, or did you think they would gladly eat the sweet salad? That’s not counting the entertainment spaces, which imply an additional expense, because how else are the little ones going to have fun?
The list could go on, but let’s move on to the controversial list of rules that Valentine, a 21-year-old girl, created, since she is so clear about what she wants for her wedding that she made this video with the instructions to follow:
From the first rule, Valentine forbids the entry of children, with the exception of his own son. His reasons are actually for space, not discomfort. Later, the future bride clarified that she will not allow alcohol to be served before 5:00 pm, as she would not like to see people leave before the party begins. Also, she hopes everyone looks good in the photos.
In another of the rules, the girl talks about the prohibition of cell phones during the ceremony, because she has already hired someone who will be in charge of taking the photos, literally, he is the expert. Valentine will also not accept additional guests because if she wanted them to come she would personally invite them.
In addition, the bride points out that she does not want important announcements to be made on the day she has waited for since she was a child. And, finally, she does not want the guests to reveal to anyone that she got married until she and her partner do so, because she wants to be the first to give the statement on networks and other spaces.
If you announce that you are pregnant, propose marriage or announce that you are engaged I will kick you out of the wedding […] I will literally kick you out. It’s the only day I’ve been looking forward to since I was a little girl, so it’s not about you. Leave it for another day.
Valentine’s list generated great debate, even the video was removed from his TikTok account, as he received more criticism than applause because the majority of the platform’s users pointed it out as “exaggerated”. Even so, there were those who totally agreed that the bride planned in detail a day as important as her wedding.
Source: Okchicas
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